Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts…

Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts… 5 months after I interviewed a company has contacted me.  Should I even consider them now? What is the most professional way to tell a company that this job/organization is not a right fit after all? Can I just be a life consultant – or do I need a niche? I’d like to start my own consulting practice related to accounting and business, but I am concerned because I have no contacts in the area we’re moving to. Should I self-publish or find a traditional publisher? And I’ve got good news – “Yelling at living things does tend to kill the spirit in them. Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts…” ― Robert Fulghum Tweet This Poem from Cliff Feightner, 48 Days Eagles You say your chances are slimAs you are not like her or himBut you’re more than ableBring your stuff to the table Show Notes: Episode – 06-16-17 Title: N/A Subtitle: N/A Summary: In this episode, Dan bombards us with a ton of good news! Dan hopes these stories will brighten your mood—we need to take time to acknowledge the good in the world. Dan also lists the 10 steps to getting your first coaching client and explains why you MUST niche down. Tune in to find out the importance of taking a clear action to get a result and what to do if you’re in a job that just isn’t a right fit for you. Sponsored By: FreshBooks is offering a 30 day, unrestricted free trial to my listeners. To claim it, just go to https://www.freshbooks.com/48days Time Stamped Show Notes: 00:47 – Preview of Today’s Show on Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts 5 months after I interviewed, a company has contacted me. Should I even consider them now? What is the most professional way to tell a company that this job/organization is not a right fit after all? Can I just be a life consultant – or do I need a niche? I’d like to start my own consulting practice related to accounting and business, but I am concerned because I have no contacts in the area we’re moving to Should I self-publish or find a traditional publisher? And I’ve got good news – “Yelling at living things does tend to kill the spirit in them. Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts…” ― Robert Fulghum 03:17 – You say your chances are slim As you are not like her or him But you’re more than able Bring your stuff to the table Your potential is filled to the brim – Cliff Fightner 04:08 – FreshBooks is offering a 30 day, unrestricted free trial to my listeners. To claim it, just go to https://www.freshbooks.com/48days 05:24 – Dan’s example of how negative words have an effect on something we consider inanimate 07:04 – Negative things on TV make Dan cringe 07:24 – Dan shares about, Alberto Gutierrez, a trash truck driver in Colombia who for 20 years would save books 08:03 – He filled his house with books and made it a library for poor children in his community 08:28 – More good news from Tumblr – a woman wrote about her mom who’s a waitress 08:43 – She and her mom are working the same waitress job 08:48 – 15 minutes ago a guy she waited on told her mom to take care and left 09:16 – The man tipped her mom $1000 for her trip to Italy to find her roots 09:38 – A woman in 2009 lost her wallet that had $141 in it, cards, and her ID 09:54 – 8 years later, her wallet came back to her 10:10 – A police officer delivered the wallet to her sister-in-law’s house and it was untouched 11:00 – Last Saturday, a passenger of Southwest Airlines, was travelling from Denver to Pittsburgh and was treated to a neat surprise before take off 11:13 – The captain explained that a special passenger was on board 11:24 – For 22 years with Southwest Airlines, he was flying his 1,000,000th passenger 11:37 – He presented the passenger a bottle of champagne, an autographed copy of her boarding card and an envelope of cash amounting to her ticket price 12:05 – Dan wants to insert these snippets of good news for the uplifting part of 48 Days podcast 12:42 – Chris says, 5 months after I interviewed, a company has contacted me. Should I even consider them now? 13:18 – Do you still want a better job at this current moment? 13:42 – People who end up getting their dream job outlast their competition 14:08 – Most people after 2 weeks assume the company hired somebody else 14:36 – Don’t berate a company for their slow follow through 15:10 – Don’t speed things up just because you’re impatient 15:19 – Dan is sending you a copy of 48 Days to the Work You Love 15:30 – Yvette says, Can I just be a life consultant – or do I need a niche? 16:16 – Yes, you need to be specific – don’t be a generalist 16:57 – Dan shares about their heart coach 17:31 – Have a clear value proposition 17:55 – How do you specifically work with people? 18:01 – Dan’s blog – How I Make Money Coaching 18:09 – Dan goes through 10 steps to getting your first coaching client Identify your area of specialty Know your ideal client Create your elevator speech Let your ideal client get to know you better Make it easy to do business with you Connect with other coaches Prepare a 20-minute speech around your topic Volunteer to coach 5 clients through a worthy organization Pitch yourself as a podcast guest Ask for the commitment 22:28 – Nathan asks, How much should I pay myself? 23:07 – You don’t pay yourself until you see a positive cash flow 23:56 – Never pay yourself from money that you borrowed 24:51 – Set up your salary as low as possible 25:47 – Dan will send you a copy of No More Dreaded Mondays 26:10 – RJ asks, What is the most professional way to tell a company that this job/organization is not a right fit after all? 26:52 – An Interview means seeing each other face-to-face 27:29 – At any point, it’s legitimate to say it’s not a great fit 27:45 – Embrace and validate the fact that they called you in 27:58 – if you wait ‘til the job offer, they will assume the offer isn’t enough 28:34 – Don’t take a job if you feel obligated to it 29:16 – Michael says, I’d like to start my own consulting practice related to accounting and business, but I am concerned because I have no contacts in the area we’re moving to 30:46 – Draw a circle of 5 miles from where you live and list down companies in that area 31:50 – Keep the logistics simple 31:59 – Identify who your ideal customers would be 32:37 – Make a list of 60 companies 33:13 – Dan shares about Shane who walked in his door and offered a dry cleaning service 34:02 – He charged the same as the dry cleaners 34:27 – Shane was getting 40% of the cost of the dry cleaners 35:30 – Dan shares about a gifted Christian musician from Tennessee 36:18 – On Tuesdays and Thursdays, she calls churches and restaurants who might be interested in her services 37:03 – Taking clear action is what will get you the results 37:22 – Dan also talks about Bonny, his bookkeeper who comes in once a month 38:47 – Billy from the previous week asks, Should I self-publish or find a traditional publisher? 40:47 – Dan will send you a book proposal outline to help you frame what you offer 42:16 – Dan works with traditional publishers 43:00 – Dan wouldn’t have sold millions of copies and translated his book if he published himself 43:36 – Look at every project in multiple ways 45:55 – Decide which way makes more sense to you 47:45 – Dan’s father’s day weekend will be about U2 and Johnny Cash 48:07 – The new 48 Days Eagles site – This is the best place for moving your career forward 48:32 – Dan closes today’s podcast 3 Key Points: Do not be too general in your scope of what you have to offer – find your niche. Take a clear action to get a result. Do not take a job if you feel obligated to do it—nor should you stay in a job if it’s not the right fit. Resources Mentioned: To ask Dan a question for the podcast – AskDan The new 48 Days Eagles site – This is the best place for moving your career forward Make money and serve as a 48 Days Seminar Presenter Go to com/48Days and get a free audio of Zig Ziglar’s See You at the Top! FreshBooks is offering a 30 day, unrestricted free trial to my listeners. To claim it, just go to https://www.freshbooks.com/48days Go to com/sleepyoulove AND use promo code – sleepyoulove – to save $50 off your purchase of the mattress Dan & Joanne love CES Conference with Jim Cockrum – for all online biz (I’ll be there!) Credits: Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives   The post Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts… appeared first on Official Site Dan Miller.