Episode 54 - How And When To Bring Up Finances In A Relationship
We all have a money story, and there are ALWAYS layers of emotions built-in. When we're in a relationship...oh, boy. But there’s a silver lining: We can create more intimacy, trust, and connection by opening up about our money story -- and also being curious about someone else's money story and experience. Still, when and how do you bring up the topic of money? What if it’s a new relationship - you don’t want to scare them away, right? Today’s guest, Kim Nicol, is a life coach with expertise in mindfulness and leadership. She is here to share tips about how, when, and why to bring up finances, especially when dating or in a new relationship. She teaches us how to learn about our acquaintances, friends, and partners by asking curiosity-driven questions about their first job, holiday gifts, expectations, and memories. A few highlights: - How you can learn about someone's experiences and perspective on money by asking creative questions. [4:31] - Kim’s process of evaluating why you may want to know about the person’s money perspective, and how to allow that to determine what you ask. [8:35] - Her personal experience in bringing up holiday gifts with her partner before Christmas, the sweet gifts they exchanged, and how being open about the subject relieved building tension about money and the upcoming holiday season. [18:04] Read all the show notes, get Kim’s links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast ------------- How healthy is your relationship with money & your honey? Find out HERE! And for more money & relationships resources, visit: https://CouplesFinancialCoach.com