Building a Family with Reciprocal IVF (at the Same Time!)

Two mamas. Two wombs. One donor. In this episode, Ana and Becky share their epic journey of building a family through simultaneous reciprocal IVF—yes, they were both pregnant at the same time. From pandemic sperm shortages to second-parent adoption logistics, this is a deeply lesbian, wildly honest, and beautifully queer tale of love, planning, and two babies born just five weeks apart.This is a story of planning, spreadsheets, love, and so much queer resilience. Also, sperm selfies. And silk pajamas. You don’t want to miss this one.🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code LOVEISLOVE at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!Check out Everywhere is Queer! IOS l Android🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!🏳️‍🌈 Key TakeawaysWhy they chose reciprocal IVF—and why they did it at the same timeThe donor selection process (including that pandemic sperm shortage!)Their deeply lesbian love story, from U-Hauls to board booksLessons from the postpartum trenches (and why doulas and dog trainers were essential)Second-parent adoption x2—just to be safeAnd the beauty of watching your two toddlers snuggle up in the same bed at night🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Ana and Becky are a married couple living in the San Francisco Bay Area. They’re thoughtful, funny, spreadsheet-loving parents of two, passionate about intentional family building, queer visibility, and silk pajamas.🏳️‍🌈 Resources MentionedCalifornia Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVEGet you TQFP Merch here!🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email [email protected]—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube🏳️‍🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book 🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch here🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our websitePhoto Credit: Lila Gray Photography🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy