White Guilt

Feeling empathy, compassion, and guilt is normal but did you know that white people often feel these because of white guilt? Know more about what white guilt is and how it can be present in the everyday life of white people.     “One of my conflicts from early childhood has been race-relations. I witnessed the people who cared for me, and that I was very fond of were not treated as equals. It was very confusing. Still is.”     - Mary Sue Rabe      Almost everyone is aware about racial discrimination but are you also aware on white guilt is? Most white people have experienced this because of the past and present occurrences of inequality amongst the black people and white people.  In this episode, Mary Sue shares her own experience on feeling white guilt at an early age. Find out how racial discrimination is present in daily scenarios up until now through her story.    What you learn from this episode:  Learn about Mary’s experience and perspective on white guilt  Know more about how white guilt is present in daily scenarios through Mary’s experience  Discover how white guilt still occurs up until now through Mary’s perspective    Link to a Free Resource:  Stand There and Look Pretty Darlin’ by Mary Sue Rabe      Topics Covered:  00:29 - Mary talks about how she first felt white guilt in the early stages of her life, her childhood  1:55 - One of the first occurrences of white guilt in Mary’s life. The little girl she saw was getting a pail of water instead of playing  4:12 - Mary shares how their house was built in their family farm  8:28 - Mary tells her realizations on how she had so much power back when she was a white kid in a small community of black people  9:14 - How white guilt was present through the attention given by the black people to white people in young Mary’s perspective.    Key Takeaways:  “One of my conflicts from early childhood has been race-relations. I witnessed the people who cared for me, and that I was very fond of were not treated as equals. It was very confusing. Still is.” - Mary Sue Rabe    “Looking back at my childhood, I realized how much attention I received. I had all of these older people around me who treated me like royalty. Who knows if they even liked me? I realized now that I had a lot of power, unbeknownst to me at the time. I wonder how they felt, whether there was ever any concern about not pleasing me or one of my siblings.” - Mary Sue Rabe     Connect with Mary Sue Rabe:  https://marysuerabe.com  https://womenhealingtheworld.com  Book: Stand There and Look Pretty Darlin'   

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Welcome to “Living Your Authentic Life Podcast for Women Over 50”. Mary Sue Rabe is the founder and director of Women Healing the World, a creative community of women who want to make a difference for other women in their communities.  Mary Sue Rabe shares life experiences and lessons learned such as finding your power, exploring issues of race, gender, and money. She also offers tools to grow personally such as forgiveness, letting go, meditation, memoir writing, and journal writing. She interviews other women of wisdom, exploring the challenges they’ve overcome and the contributions they’ve made. Find out more at https://marysuerabe.com/