61. Two sexuality disparities – ... and the elephant in the #metoo room

One of the most contentious issues of our culture is about differences between the sexes. From a higher perspective this isn’t even an issue, but at the level of the physical world, I think there is a point in giving the matter a thought or two. My take on this focuses on sexuality, where there seems to be at least some variation that is corroborated by science. Sex drive per se is not stronger in any of the sexes, but my conclusion is that there are two overarching differences in the way sexuality expresses itself. If these are not understood, we may never overcome some unnecessary misunderstandings between men and women. A fascinating look into one of the few remaining matriarchies, the Mosuo in southwestern China, also gives us some clues as to what we probably ought to understand better. For links to referenced scientific studies and reports about the Mosuo go to my corresponding story on Medium.  Listen also to episodes 59 (Kajsa Ekis Ekman) and 53 (Bettina Arndt).