Why I Don’t Use Rewards-Based Systems When Parenting

Are you using star charts or food rewards to motivate your kids? Do you think it's making a difference in how they respond? Today I want to take you on a reflective journey into the world of parenting strategies. Drawing from my teaching experience, I question the effectiveness of these methods and explore the individual responses our children have to them. I’ll share the long-term effects of relying on external motivators and uncover the transformative power of connected parenting. It’s time to rethink praise language and engage in conversations that go beyond the surface, delving into the heart of our children's feelings, processes, and learning experiences. Get ready for a thought-provoking exploration that could redefine your parenting approach! 🔗 Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowBuy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicTake a look at my upcoming 3-Day Parenting Unplugged event. Get 15% OFF for a limited time. https://peaceandparentingla.com/parenting-unpluggedOur Sponsors:* Check out Factor 75 and use my code PEACE50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com* Check out HomeThreads.com/PEACE to get a code for 15% off your first order!* Check out Masimo Stork: https://www.masimostork.com/en-us/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/peace-and-parenting/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Find out how to come to parenting through the lens of connection as a way to navigate and unravel sticky parenting situations. Michelle is a mother of two girls, as well as a former teacher and counselor turned Certified Parenting Instructor. After years of consequences, bribes, and star charts, she finally reshaped the relationship she shares with her daughters and credits peaceful parenting for changing her life. Michelle considers herself a recovering yeller, perfectionist, and control freak who has found a more calm and connected way to parent.