Episode 113: The balance of attraction

The balance of attraction is a concept I developed to help explain certain emotional dynamics in romantic relationships. It’s based on a fundamental axiom, which is: no two people can like each other exactly the same amount. One of the most important corollaries of this axiom is that, in any relationship, one person will like the other more and one person will like the other less. Who occupies which position can change from day-to-day, or even moment-to-moment, but most relationships are characterized by a fairly stable attraction imbalance. I’ll talk more about this in this episode.