153 | Touches for Pleasure & a Condom Fetish: Dobromil’s Sex Stories

Sexy is playful: time and space different from the daily norm, and it’s clear Dobromil loves it, loves talking about it, and has gained so much pleasure wisdom, including amazing examples of how to have a safer-sex convo:    R - relationship status B - boundaries — right now, where to go? D - desires — a specific want you notice in this moment? S - sexual health — testing status? Partnership status?  M - meaning — what does it mean for you? What do you want it to mean?   He shares memories of his first arousal (Blue Lagoon!), why his dad was surprised during his sex talk, porn and pleasure in the forest, realizing his attraction toward penises, an early experience on the Croatian seashore that was exhilaration and the first cruising and experience and also first ping of shame. We talk gay culture, feeling SO gay together, and a ritual of desire that led him to a group of radical fairies! We get early details of water feeling good, an ANGEL of a human with a relaxed family whose disposition was so non-judgmental it softened the same. Sensual details, being too shy to come out to his family, a lover who opened up his eyes to creating relationships he wanted, and rewriting the monogamy script, and discovering Cindy Gallop’s Make Love Not Porn Ted Talk and wondering how to consciously go off script. Which led to more exploration, tantra, creativity, The Rainbow Gathering in Italy, a Croatian festival with sex workshops, The Mulit-Orgasmic Man, and getting pleasure from giving pleasure, youth nights at the (gay) saunas, and the difference between boundary setting in Eastern vs Western Europe, and the differences across sexual cultures, along with experiences getting STI tests in different countries, how condoms are like a diving suit, and getting turned on by straight porn!   📈 STATS | 33-year-old homoflexible Slavic man; socialized gay, is now opening up; he is polyamorous and has a handful of lovers in addition to a primary partner, and is into edging, (Neo)tantra, is a sexually benevolent dominant Top, and he was trained as an anthropologist and relationship counselor, a radical Faerie, and also has worked on and off as a tantra practitioner and traveler. 🔗 LINKS |  wyohlee.com/links  🔓PRIVATE STUFF | EXCLUSIVE patron-only updates, Wyoh’s private photo gallery, and a community discord of sexy stories & pics — all for the price of a fancy coffee. Sign up here: patreon.com/wyohlee  🎙️BE A GUEST | Want to be on the show? Visit sexstoriespodcast.com to give me a little overview of your sex life so we can spread ripples of love and learn together! 🗣RECORD A SEX STORY QUICKIE SOLO | Leave a voicemail by calling 323.364.9369 or record up to five minutes at sexstoriespodcast.com. 📞 PRIVATE CALL | It won’t be recorded, aired or shared, like a mini-sex stories episode for just you and me. Pick your time here: 📞 wyohlee.com/call  🎥wyohlee.com/video  🍑💦🍆💦😈🙌 REMEMBER TO SHARE SEX STORIES!!!!!