101. How to stop "shoulding" yourself

Today we are going to be talking about the word “should”. Specifically, what it means if you are shoulding yourself, how it’s affecting your dating life, and how to start choosing an easier path forward.  I should let it go. I should have figured this out by now. I shouldn’t care so much. I should just push a little harder. “Should” thoughts such as these are so insidious. Tune in to hear how to start shedding the shoulds from your dating life for good. Hot-takes From This Episode:  “Shoulding” is a sign that you need to play with self-compassion What if should was not an option? What would that sound, look, and feel like? Why should is a weapon against your own agency. You deserve to be self-trust-filled and empowered. The “should” standard is there to keep you oppressed. “Should” is your teacher, it is not the enemy. It is here to teach you where to practice self-compassion and unhook from previous norms that kept you in a box. Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today’s Episode: Join the Brazen Breakthrough - Apply Today! Date Brazen on Instagram @datebrazen Episode 69: Worthiness + Winning Results with Simone Grace Seol SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/how-to-stop-shoulding-yourself  

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How do I find the right relationship when dating apps suck? How can I find better dates? How can I deal with that nagging anxiety that no one is out there for me? How can I navigate dating with more confidence and find that right relationship? Welcome to The Date Brazen Podcast, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life. After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same. If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you. Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.