97. Is an emotionally intelligent AND attractive partner possible?

“I can’t expect to have an emotionally intelligent partner and be attracted to them.” Woah. If you are thinking to yourself, “Yes, that’s me. I think that!” Then yes, friend, that is where we are going today. In this episode, I help illuminate this story you have been carrying around about your love life, help you to excavate it, gently, and come out the other side feeling more in control.  So yes, you have a lot of expectations and desires for your dating life. Your job is not to know how things are going to happen. Your job is to ask for what you want and to learn how to overcome patriarchal narratives that have been keeping you confined.  Tune into this episode as we hold space for your human experience and rewrite narratives that have been holding you back from the expansiveness of who you are!  Hot-takes From This Episode:  What is an emotionally intelligent partner, anyway? How to describe and attract what you desire. Confirmation bias: if your brain has decided what you want doesn’t exist, your brain will continue to look for that evidence!  Wanting what you want means starting to look for evidence that what you want DOES exist.  Consider: What does attraction mean to you?  Moving from an Either/Or mindset to a Both/And mindset. The patriarchal influence on your dating life.  Journal: What is a thought that feels useful and true?  Here Are The Links & Resources Mentioned In Today’s Episode: Join the Brazen Breakthrough - Apply Today! Date Brazen on Instagram @datebrazen Show notes: https://www.datebrazen.com/blog/is-an-emotionally-intelligent-and-attractive-partner-possible  

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How do I find the right relationship when dating apps suck? How can I find better dates? How can I deal with that nagging anxiety that no one is out there for me? How can I navigate dating with more confidence and find that right relationship? Welcome to The Date Brazen Podcast, where we’ll answer ALL of these questions and so much more. Week after week, host, former top matchmaker and dating coach, Lily Womble brings you all the tools, strategies and coaching you need to build a clear path to the best relationship of your life. After matching hundreds, Lily realized that with training, women can match themselves better than anyone else ever could. Now she helps thousands of women around the world build fulfilling, joyful and successful dating lives on their own terms. She’s here to help you do the same. If you’re looking for unconventional, feminist leaning dating advice that works, this podcast is for you. Along with her best kept secrets, Lily will share interviews with experts and live coaching sessions, so you can feel seen, heard and inspired.