Stop Living in the Land of Almost and Half Commitments: Monica Berg

Sherry and Carla get into a quick debate on leg washing, and then announce their first program together, The Love Fix Coaching Program! They welcome Monica Berg, author, podcaster, and Chief Communications officer at The Kabbalah Center. Monica shares how her many years of Kabbalastic study taught her lessons about life and love, and why so many of us are stuck in half commitments. Monica talks about the characteristics in our potential love partners that we really should be looking for, and how to trade perfectionism for presence in our lives.     What You’ll Hear In This Episode:   Sherry and Carla announce their first program together - The Love Fix Coaching Program! They will get into all kinds of issues including love addiction, codependency, toxic relationships, and much more. Plus, it will be super interactive. Sign up to get on the waitlist!  What are the benefits of group coaching?  What does it mean when we are “living in the land of almost”?  Are you in what Monica calls a half commitment? What does that look like, and what can you do about it?  Monica is the Chief Communications Officer of The Kabbalah Centre. How did she get into kabbalistic study, and what are the tenets of the practice?  Some great tips from Monica’s book Rethink Love,  along with ways to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, healing from toxic relationships and gaining confidence. It’s not about asking too much, it’s about asking for the right things.  Monica shares how we can both not settle for someone or something we don’t want, but also not expect perfection in ourselves or the people we love.  What characteristics really are important when it comes to finding love? And yes, smelling nice can be one of them.  What are some steps that someone can use to help create more presence in the relationship?  Monica shares some common self sabotage behaviors.  It sure may be fun to get, but giving really helps the giver more than the receiver.  Tweetables:  “I see a lot of people living in the land of almost.” - Monica  “You really know if you are compatible with someone during the hard times.”  - Monica  “When you are truthful, honest, transparent and vulnerable from the beginning, then you can fully show up.” - Monica  “You can only change when you decide you are going to make a choice to do so.” - Monica    Connect with Us!   The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Wake up Recovery for Codependency, Love Addiction, and Toxic Relationships — $1 trial membership The Love Fix Relationship Quiz     Sign up for a Connection call with Sherry https://sherrygaba.com/coaching/life-coaching/    Find Out More:    Sherry Website | Instagram | Facebook | Love Smacked | Wake Up Recovery for Codependents and Toxic Relationships     Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp    Monica Berg Spiritually Hungry Podcast | Rethink Love | IG | Kabbalah Centre      Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry’s book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love.  Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.