S1 Ep16: 16. Thinking in Possibility: how to know what you want

Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: It can be hard to know what you want,  when you don't believe that you get to create what you want. That you have permission. When so often, what you wanted (to do, be, say, not say) has been “wrong”; And when over-adapting has been hard enough, so anything bigger, better, brighter, beyond, carries the fear that it will require more burnout, more over-adapting; When saying YES to yourself and TRUSTING those instincts has led to rejection. But here's the thing; When you don’t identify what you want to create in this life, intimately, clearly, desirously… then you end up re-creating either: - your past - what other people want for you - what already is. To know what you want to create, means to start thinking beyond the probability of What Is. To no longer delegate your thinking to your past, statistics, other people, current circumstances... To know what you want to create, means to think in Possibility. To fill that void of what could be, with intentional decisions. And to trust it. Why? Because your fully expressed self is seeded in that void BEYOND probability. That void is dark matter potency; is potential universe; is potential YOU. When you recognise the potent power of that void to invoke the unexpressed parts of you, you can use it to KNOW (sense listen, feel, connect to) what you want to create. And as Rumi said: what you are seeking is seeking you. You wouldn’t want it, if it wasn’t possible. Those desires are in you for a reason. Thinking in that possibility is the first step to REALising things beyond your current circumstances, and realising the fullness of who you are inside - on the outside. In this week’s podcast episode, I share a story to illustrate this point, and invite you to THINK in possibility. ________ The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within; by unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Head over to solasystems.xyz where you can activate your membership in the free + Siblings community, hosted on Discord. To find out more about The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool', go to solasystems.xyz/siblings