S1 Ep18: 18. Are you waiting for permission?

Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: This episode kicks off a series of podcasts on this topic of belonging to ourselves more fully, and in every new arena we enter... You might say that belonging to yourself means: Deciding that you allow… yourself. That you allow… the experiences you are actually in. That you are allowed to like yourself, love yourself, without conditions. Unconditionally.   Many of the siblings I coach enter my unmasking unschool 'The SOLA System' with beliefs that are all variations on one theme: that they are fundamentally wrong on some level. That they are too much, or not enough. That they are the problem. That there are conditions on their belonging. That they need permission. This belief has had them making DECISIONS, and thinking THOUGHTS, based on the idea that they need to get approval first. That the barrier is outside of their control - because permission is up to other people. That permission isn’t yet granted. That they need to convince, conform, or persuade, to get it. But permission to be who you are, can only come from inside you. You give yourself that permission. Listen to find out how. ________ The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within; by unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings